Yes! Life is changing....

Life has changed a lot in the last few days... am suffering from football fever, have come to know that there is something called DDP (Dual Degree Project) whose first stage presentation is in July first week, space of chatting has been used by spiders to make cobwebs..... If something has not changed, that's my sleep of 8 hours (it may be from 12 to 8, or 2 to 10, but duration is fixed), and taking bath daily (I can boast of it being at IIT :D)

The time is passing by, and I am not doing anything.... Am I wasting it? Or Is it a silence before stormy preparation of everything?.. yup :) thats what I can say to assure myself... I thought upon it to find it rather true... This almost idle time is being utilised by me to get prepare mentally for the upcoming things in life, most important of them is CAT (Common Aptitude Test), entrance exam for IIMs. New ideas, new thoughts, newer strategies pop up, and a part of brain nods to their approval, while the next day is turn of some other part to use its veto-power, thus keeping me confused as ever.

Staying at IIT in summer vacations is itself a great experience. Very less humans but more humanity living in hostels, you remember your near and dear ones more, getting food also is a challenge (In short, you can experience life of an ascetic without actually going to forest) Those who missed it in their stay at IIT are really unlucky.

Udham Singh said, "Changes are inevitable. Best is if we change our changes to become productive." This time, seems like getting wasted, but has its own significance... It is showing future's roadmap to me, and I wonder what better can some moment give, than foretelling something. I am indebted to this passed time for abovesaid reasons, and anxiously waiting for next moment. I know it wouldn't make me wait longer than my babe :D.

Yup! Woman is a must for Success

An ancient proverb says, "Behind every successful man, there is a woman" (funny extension of which is, "Behind every failed man, there are at least two") A thorough study of mine on the original proverb found it true to the core. Having a woman is highly essential for scaling heights in life. One, who has none, wastes too much time thinking about what would have happened, if he had one? .... gets trapped and nothing happens (Which otherwise would also not have happpened, but now he keeps on thinking that this all is due to lady-less life :) One, who is happy with his lady, is, of course, living a peaceful life, there is less stress, which is an essential component of being successful. While the other person, whose life has become hell due to the lady, simply ignores her, and 40% of his mind is now free (In case of doubt, Refer my earlier posting "Guys' Dressing Sense"), doesn't want to think about opposite sex, which ultimately can lead to him being more dedicated and efficient worker (both these qualities are descriptors of success.)

A woman never comes alone in life, It comes in a package along with free products (improves various skills like managerial, entrepreneur, truth-hiding, showy skills) which are a must for growth in today's world. You are a different person, after you enter a relationship (according to your friends, relatives), and you are happy because you feel you are changing according to your lady. Suddenly, one fine day, She says, "You are not the same person, as you used to be!!!" (and your mind, if any, goes blank.... )

History also supports my arguments. A lady makes fun of her husband, and We know this person, Goswami Tulsidas, for his most-respected piece of literature RamCharitManas. Another lady criticises her illiterate husband, and another genius was born whom we know today as Kalidas (writer of Malvikaagnimitra, Abhigyan-Shakuntalam and many more). (Ever wondered Why all famous people are "Das"(servants) of their respective wives :D), and they say, "Society has been male-dominated." (I feel the opposite way.)

In the end, I would like to quote few words of famous English writer Oscar Wilde, "A man can be happy with any woman as long as he does not love her." Udham Singh supplemented it, "True! A man can never be happy with the woman, he loves."

Hey Lord! Would you do it for 1 rupee?

Amidst vast set of problems, I pray to the Almighty, "Hey Lord! Do me a favour. Save my ass from tommorrow's assignments, or from parents' fury.... Get me a 90% score card (you know I have attempted 30%)....... and you know, what? I won't disappoint you... I'll give you 1 rupee 4 annas... Happy????? no!! ok 'll give you some more but promise me you'll do it..." You must have found yourself somewhere in the statement.. And wherever he/she is, He/she must be enjoying the bribing/cunning acts of his/her own creation.

We say, taking bribe is corruption, is immoral... What exactly am I practising when I offer a glass of milk to lord, with 3 teaspoons full of sugar in it (sometimes Ro-o-hafza too!!) at 4 am, just because I have an exam at 9 am that day.... just because I have an interview this day... because I want to marry someone... want some decision in my favour... one or the other thing....

Now either I should accept my Lord is corrupt, immoral, or if he doesn't favour me even after my so-many pious acts, again either he is the biggest cheater of the world, or all these long-established customs are fake.... People say (trying to satisfy their ego's reactions), "No, he must be favouring... Are we all a chunk of fools who practise it till today? Who taught you this non-sense?.... You have no knowledge.. lord is hungry only of our feelings, not these offerings.. " I ask,"Yup! I agree.. then, why don't you give these to needy people, beggars, disabled who can't earn a living..." And a lovely answer comes from these sacred people "Who are we to take care? He is the only one who has made them so!! Their sufferings must have been because of their previous misdeeds!!" And I laugh out loud (of course, not in front of them..) How ignorant! Should I rather say, "We all are living in a virtual world, each one living happily there one made, by him, for him, where fortunes quota is fixed for others by their respective destinies, but mine can change :-)... Afterall, this is my world, yaar!!"

I feel, society needs a change, which can only be brought up by a radical way of thinking mixed with good education.... Albert Einstein once said, "It is a miracle that curiosity survives formal education. The ability to question should never stop." We should keep asking our own self, "Why should I believe this idea?, only because my parents told me to do so... only because I see majority of people doing this.... only because if I don't believe it, my sweet heart will turn into bitterheart (can't stop my self from poor jokes :-D)..."

In the end, some words of wisdom by a noted psychologist Udham Singh, "Moving with a herd is the job of a sheep....... King is the one who defines the path for the rest."

First drizzle of the season

What does it feel when one is deported from hell, and sent to heaven? What does it feel when you suddenly get a hot babe as your girlfriend? Not very different is the smell of sand after first rain when Earth says, "Aha :-)," and you can see the happiness on the planet all around. After 3-4 months of bearing Sun's constant blaze, Lord Monsoon comes to resuce earth of the anger of Sun's fire.

May 31, 2006 4:xy am ('x' & 'y' are constant but unknown) I woke up to the tunes of raindrops dancing in front of my room, while knocking my window as well. (Think, How can it be?) I came out, and the scene around aroused mixed feelings. In full 4 months of heat, sweat.... I had forgotten what did rain mean, and how it looked? Parent birds were seen teaching their babies rules of rainy season (Even a novice in understanding their language could hear lovely chirping.) All droplets falling in a line, as members of same family, fell down at a same place... First few are absorbed while later ones complain, "Why did you jumpp on me?" (And you can hear their noises!) Clouds are very intelligent!!! (They keep lighting the path so that water drops don't move out of the path, and they switch off lights in between as well so as to make drops find their way on their own.) What wrong is in praying these so-intelligent natural things? Stupids say, "It's all superstitious."

I feel supreme when someone says from other place, "Yaar! yahan to hum garmi mein mar rahe hain, wahan mausam kaisa hai?" My reply revolves around first two paragraphs of this blog making other person jealous.

Human nature love changes (Guess why there are rules forcing monogamy!!!!!)... Earth loves rain today, it will diminish in due course of time, and with my past experience, I am sure it'll develop hatred soon.... but having forgotten everything, planet is having a honeymoon blast right now :D. Let it chill and you too enjoy the sexy weather outside.